Walk the Talk

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When people talk the talk but do not walk the walk, it means they do not act in a way consistent with what they say. Their lips profess one thing but their lives exhibit another. People like this are rightly seen to be inconsistent and insincere, or to be as Jesus called them, “hypocrites.”

The demand, “If you talk the talk, you better walk the walk,” most often comes from skeptical people who have seen too many phony professors claim one thing and do another. However, it is not an unreasonable request for Christians to walk their talk. If you say you believe something, you should live like you do, after all, “actions speak louder than words,” “the time for talk is over,” and it is only right for you to “practice what you preach.” These familiar phrases point to one thing—to be credible and effective, you must live what you believe. Above all things, Christ calls His followers to always live life transparently for Him, in the presence of a doubting, critical and often cynical world.

In Jesus’ day hypocrites were well known for talking the talk, but not walking the walk. The Lord condemned them in the harshest terms, saying they would blow a trumpet so everyone could see them give alms (Matt 6:2)—stand and utter long prayers in the most conspicuous places so they could be seen by people (verse 5)—and disfigure their faces so it would appear to others that they were fasting (verse 16). Because of their religious sideshow, Jesus compared them to a cup that was externally clean but internally putrid (Matt. 23:25). He said they were like whitewashed tombs that were beautiful outwardly, but inwardly were full of dead men’s bones (verse 27). Unfortunately the hypocrisy of the Pharisees did not end in the first century.

Not only do hypocrites not walk the walk, they often criticize others who try to do so. Jesus exposed the absurdity of the judgmental hypocrite when he said, “Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,’ when you yourself do not see the log that is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother’s eye” (Luke 6:41-42).

The Lord’s story of the speck and the log illustrates that some of your harshest critics, may be misguided people who have an appearance of Christianity without the life-changing power of Christ within. Don’t let self-appointed fruit inspectors discourage your walk with Christ. The Lord did not save you to judge people around you, but to live for Him, showing humility and having compassion, like Him.

Ultimately, “we will all stand before the judgment seat of God” (Romans 14:10). Paul writes, “So then each one of us will give an account of himself to God. Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather determine this—not to put an obstacle or a stumbling block in a brother’s way” (verses 12-13).

How much of an impact would you have if you exhibited in your life what you believe in your heart? This is what Paul meant when he wrote, “Only conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ” (Phil. 1:27). That is the reason he admonished them to “work out your salvation with fear and trembling for it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure” (Phil. 2:12, 13). Their soul-salvation, which was in-wrought, was to be out-worked. They were, and we are, to walk the talk.

Songwriter Russ Lee had this in mind when he wrote: “I’m gonna live what I believe; I’m gonna walk that line. If it costs me everything, I’m gonna stand for what is right. So that everyone can see, It’s Jesus that they need. I’m gonna live what I believe.”

Accountability is crucial if you are serious about walking the talk—living for Christ in this world. You cannot do it by yourself; you need God; you need His Word; you need brothers and sisters who will urge you, teach you, pray for and help you. That is what the church is all about. The first church set the pattern for all churches when “they were continually devoting themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer” (Acts 2:42). The effect of that church was dynamic as “Everyone kept feeling a sense of awe” (verse 43) and “the Lord was adding to their number day by day those who were being saved” (verse 47). As you grow in your Christian life in the company of God’s people, you can truly walk the walk and talk the talk for Jesus!

But, let me warn you: Although no one is perfect, if there is a discrepancy between your faith and your practice—a disconnect between your belief and your behavior—a disparity between your walk and your talk—your witness for Christ will be diminished.

What pleases the Lord and impacts people is when your doctrines and your deeds go hand in hand. As you live what you believe, the world will see human integrity, God’s grace and Christ himself in your life. For this reason Jesus commanded His followers to “Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven” (Matt. 5:16). When you walk the talk, Jesus is exemplified, God is glorified and your Christian walk is verified.

 

 

 

Steps to Success

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How do you define success? Most people would say that success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose in life.  Success would be obtaining the favorable or desired outcome of a goal.  No matter how you define it, everyone wants to succeed.  Only a fool would set out in life, planning to be a failure.  So, if we all want to succeed, how can we best do that?

N. Garnett, Jr., a Certified Crop Advisor for Southern States, expressed one of the most comprehensive definitions of success I have seen. He said, “I define success as having a job that you enjoy and enables you financially, a spouse and family that loves and cares for you, children that make you proud by who they are and what they do, having the freedom to worship a loving God, and being able to contribute to the betterment of your fellow man. I am so blessed!” (Inc.com, December 18, 2014).

Booker T. Washington shared an insightful definition of success. In “The Story of My Life and Work,” (1969, page 51) he wrote, “I have learned that success is to be measured, not so much by the position one has reached in life, as by the obstacles which he has overcome while trying to succeed.” The energy, wisdom and tenacity required to overcome obstacles, may result in more satisfaction in success than the outcome.

The promise of success is most helpful when failure seems imminent, or the task seems futile. Joshua was in that intimidating place as he stepped into the shoes of Moses, probably the greatest leader of all time. During the previous 40 years Moses had endured while leading two million people of Israel from Egypt, through the desolate Sinai desert, to the border of the Promised Land. Through those four decades of turmoil Joshua had aided Moses. But now, Moses had died and the mantle of leadership fell upon Joshua. God said, “now therefore arise, cross this Jordan, you and all this people, to the land which I am giving to them, to the sons of Israel” (Joshua 1:2).

No doubt Joshua was terrified at the task God called him to do. Thirty-eight years earlier Joshua, with Caleb, had been two of the 12 spies who had explored the land, only to have their report rejected by the people of Israel (Num. 13:1-16).  Israel did not trust God, so were condemned to waste 40 years of aimless wandering.

Now, to encourage Joshua, the Lord outlined His plans for him (Joshua 1:2-4). God assured Joshua of His own presence, “Just as I have been with Moses, I will be with you; I will not fail you or forsake you” (verse 5). Then the Lord followed with fresh words of encouragement, saying, “Be strong and courageous” (verse 6). . . “Be strong and very courageous” (verse 7). . . “Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the LORDyour God is with you wherever you go” (verse 9).

In the midst of these reassuring words, the Lord promised Joshua success if he would follow three steps, “. . . for then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have success” (verse 8).

What are the steps God said would bring success?

First, “This book of the law shall not depart from your mouth….” God’s power, even in battle, would inevitably be connected with His Word.  If Joshua spent time in, and was familiar with Scripture, it would bring success and blessing in other, more tangible ways.  The “book of the law” was the writings of Moses, who penned the first five books of the Bible. For success, first Joshua needed to be familiar with Israel’s history, God’s laws, His commands and blessings recorded in God’s Word. These words were “not to depart from your mouth.”  The Word was to be on his mind and lips.

Secondly, “You shall meditate on it day and night….”God said if Joshua would methodically meditate on Scripture, he would be successful. The Hebrew word for “meditate” means to coo, mutter or read in an undertone. Meditating on Scripture means to think about every word of the verse and seek ways to apply it to ones own life. As you meditate on Scripture, it will increase your understanding of God’s desires for your life.  The one who is “blessed,” or successful, is the one who finds delight in God’s Word and meditates on it day and night (Psalm 1:1-2).

 The Third step for success was to “be careful to do according to all that is written in it….”  Someone said that the road to hell is paved with good intentions. It is not what you want, but what you do, that makes a difference. Joshua was to “do according to” what was written.  It is easy to acknowledge obedience, to nod toward the value of doing something good, and yet fail to do it. Doing God’s will is the most important part of Christian service. James commands believers to “prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves” (James 1:22).

As Joshua spent quality time in Scripture, meditated on it and lived it out in practical ways, he led the people of Israel to victory while God made his way prosperous and granted him good success.

If you want success, these three steps will work for you as well. Practice a daily quiet time of reading the Bible.  Meditate on a verse or two that is significant to you.  Then obey the desires of God for your life.  No matter what happens God will consider the results a success.

Turn…Turn…Turn

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In 1965 Pete Seeger adapted the words of Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, put them to music, and the Byrds sang the resulting song into a popular hit, “Turn… Turn… Turn.” The lyrics and song struck a familiar chord with many in those days who were experiencing times of tremendous change. Some of you reading this may remember all the upheavals of life during the turbulent 1960’s, as massive changes swept through every level of American society.

The theme of Seeger’s song, penned by inspiration at the hand of King Solomon, was that change happens under God’s control, not by random chance. He wrote, “There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven—A time to give birth and a time to die; A time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted. A time to kill and a time to heal; A time to tear down and a time to build up. A time to weep and a time to laugh; A time to mourn and a time to dance” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-4).

The result of all these changes reaches its climax in verse 11, where it says, “He has made everything appropriate in its time. He has also set eternity in their hearts. . . .” This means that God has given every person an eternal perspective, so that he or she can look beyond the routine changes and difficulties of his or her own existence. Because God made us eternal beings, each of us realizes that there is more to this life than struggles, gains, losses, joys and heartaches. In the most thoughtful times you realize that you are not like “little dog Rover, dead all over,” when you die. We were created eternal beings with God’s desire that we enjoy fellowship with Him forever. God made fellowship with Him possible, and life forever in Heaven available by trusting Jesus Christ as your Savior. The apostle John wrote that, “whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. For God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through Him” (John 3:16-17).

However, knowing you are an eternal being does not mean you love the ups and downs, gains and losses, in this life. Change is inevitable, difficult, and most often resisted. But as Henry Ford observed, “If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.”

Personally, I have always identified with the last phrase of Proverbs 24:21, “My son, fear the Lord and the king; do not associate with those who are given to change.” I find comfort in this verse because the status quo is pleasant, while new things, changing things; unfamiliar things, are complicated, strange and uncomfortable. As difficult as it is, change happens these days more frequently, more inevitably and more swiftly than ever before.

Washington Irving (1783-1859), author of “The Legend of Sleepy Hollow” and “Rip Van Winkle,” recorded something true and memorable about “change.” He wrote, “There is a certain relief in change, even though it be from bad to worse! As I have often found in traveling in a stagecoach, that sometimes it is a comfort to shift one’s position, and be bruised in a new place.” Change may be painful, but it is not all bad if you can be bruised in a new place.

An unknown back-porch philosopher accurately appraised the problem like this: “Changes—they are a comin’!” Change is inevitable. We are witnessing dramatic changes in almost everything we know, see and do. Rapid and often unwelcome changes in technology, politics, moral standards, government, society, media, nations, communications and finances are just the tip of the iceberg. Like it or not, drastic change is the new norm. Rapid changes will probably continue to accelerate the closer we approach the return of our Lord Jesus Christ. Though it makes some of us uncomfortable, sometimes change is good, wholesome, healthy, and may be spiritually invigorating. And, as the old saying goes, like it or not, here it comes!

In today’s multi-generational mix of fickle humanity, if you are a serious follower of Jesus Christ in this age you must chart your course by being committed to unchangeable values while being flexible with harmless trends. Some changes come and go without damage or danger. Sometimes the difference between the absolute and the abstract gets murky, but thankfully, inspired Scripture enables us to stay focused on what is important. Our direction must always be determined by imperative, clear, biblical priorities. We know that the Word of God is just as powerful and relevant whether it is read from ink on paper in a leather-bound book, or from an app on an iPhone. Truth is truth.

Change can be intimidating and frightening, but it can also be exciting and positive if we employ the changes to expand the kingdom and reach more people with His eternal, life-changing message. Focus on being true to the message that does not change while communicating in methods that always change. Robin Sharma said that “Change is hard at first, messy in the middle, but gorgeous at the end.”

No matter what happens, God is still in control and He still has a great plan for His people to honor and serve Him. Find your place and purpose in life, and hang on to the hope of His glory!

Dangers of a Dull Knife

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My dad told me something I thought was strange. As I sawed on a little nylon rope with my pocketknife, he said, “You know, a dull knife will cut you.” What he said did not make sense at the time, but a few months later I learned the truth of his words, first-hand. While trying to force that still dull blade through a piece of wood, the blade slipped and jabbed my hand. I learned a bloody lesson the hard way.

So, why is a dull knife dangerous? A dull blade requires more pressure to cut, which increases the likelihood that the knife will slip with great force behind it, cutting or stabbing whatever it crosses.

If you think that seems like a contradiction, think about this: Not only will dull knives cut you, but only hard things like stone or steel can make them sharp. A knife blade will only get sharp when forced at the proper angle along a piece of stone or steel. The pressure and friction on the stone sharpens the knife.

You may be thinking, “OK, this is not a shop class, so where are you going with this?”

God used the truth that abrasive friction was necessary to sharpen knives, so we could learn the biblical principle: “Iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). When one piece of iron is rubbed with force against another, it shapes and sharpens it.

First, the Lord wants you to know that people who surround you will influence you, for better or worse. Your family, friends and companions can make you sharp or dull.

Scripture encourages us to make and be good companions: “He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm” (Proverbs 13:20). Your friends affect you, your attitudes, your behavior, your language, your values, your life and the level of your achievement.

You will be blessed if you surround yourself with friends who encourage and bring out the best in you. There are some people you can spend time with, who will make you a better person. My wife, Pat, is the most influential person in shaping my thinking, attitude and actions. My children have contributed greatly to help me be a better person. Most of my friends, whether they realize it or not, encourage me to do better.

A second truth you can learn from this biblical principle is that it takes pressure, friction, and even a little heat, to make you sharp. Knives cannot be sharpened without abrasive resistance. Cutting warm butter will not sharpen a knife. It takes friction to knock off the rough, dull edges of the blade, rendering it sharp and useful.

Similarly, like “iron on iron,” you need friends who will expose your hypocrisy, correct your poor habits, confront your laziness and challenge your sloppy thinking. This course of action may produce friction and generate heat, but it will make you sharper, safer and more useable to God and will render you a blessing to others.

The third lesson is that, just as friends may sharpen you, it is probable that others may dull your blade and make you less effective. Through the years I have had companions who soiled my testimony and encouraged me to do the wrong things. These are ones you need to avoid like the plague. God’s warning is clear and true: “Do not associate with a man given to anger; or go with a hot-tempered man, or you will learn his ways and find a snare for yourself” (Proverbs 22:24-25).

These verses literally came true for me when I got a job at a DDT plant following high school graduation. Daily, I worked shoulder-to-shoulder, with a hot-tempered, foul-mouthed young man. Growing up, I had mostly avoided the habit of using curse words.  This came from no inner goodness on my part, as much as from a hatred of the soap my mom used to wash my mouth when she heard dirty words slip out.  A month into this job, listening to my co-worker spew out curse words in every sentence, every day, affected me. I began to notice a change in myself, when a little peeved, curse words sprang to my mind and were right on my tongue. It was all I could do to keep from using the obscenities that were readily available. I even had nightmares riddled with profanity. Paul warned, “Do not be deceived: Bad company corrupts good morals” (1 Corinthians 15:33). Thankfully, I only worked three months with the potty-mouthed guy, but it took a few years to rid my mind of the verbal filth lodged there.

It is for these very reasons every believer needs to be active in a local church of loving people. Each of us is changed for the better by regular exposure to godly folks. God commands His people: “Let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds, not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near” (Hebrews 10:24-25). This means, if you want to please God, you must be regular and active in your local church. It also puts the lie to those who say, “I don’t need the church! I can live just as well for Jesus at home.” No, friend, you cannot. You need to spend time with God’s people and sharpen your life.

Consider who and how you can encourage, stimulate and bless. People who need Jesus as Savior, and others who need encouragement to serve Him in life, are all around you. If you will invest time and energy with good people, it will sharpen you for life. Iron sharpens iron—one man sharpens another—so you don’t have to be a dull blade. Pray for people with whom you can invest your life—then do it—for the glory of God. Remember, a dull knife will cut you but God has a better plan!

Tax Day….YAY!

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I have a friend in Orange County, California, who owned a very successful cabinet shop. He and his wife started with nothing and slowly built it up into a multi-million dollar business employing 15 cabinetmakers. One day he was working at the desk in his house, figuring up and writing the check for his quarterly estimated income tax. His wife happened to see the amount of the check and was floored at the size of it. “That’s terrible that we have to pay so much in taxes!” she exclaimed to him. Frank calmly replied: “Honey, there have been times when we didn’t owe any taxes. I would rather pay taxes than owe none!”

Nobody likes to pay taxes. This duty is unpopular and for many people April 15 is the most dreaded day of the year. Sometimes there is evidence of corruption in the collection and use of tax money. It seems the amount and types of taxes are endless, and we think there are better things we could do with our money. But for the Christian, it is our duty to pay our fair share.

Where does your tax money go, anyway?

When Americans pay their taxes, some of it goes to salaries of local, state and federal government workers. It supports community protection like police and firefighters. A large portion goes to provide for the common defense, like our armed forces, military, ships, tanks, planes and guns used to keep us safe and defend our freedom. Some tax money goes to invest in technology and education, as well as to provide goods and services for the American people. It also pays for major health programs, Medicare and Medicaid, as well as prisons to keep criminals out of the community, which make our streets safer. Tax dollars insure the roads you travel on are safe and well maintained, as well as bridges, railways and interstate highways. Taxes fund public libraries, parks and recreation facilities. Generally speaking, taxes enable the smooth and beneficial running of society. Taxes pay the cost of maintaining our freedom.

Who Pays the Most in Taxes?

You may think you have it bad on tax day. However, the top 1% of Americans pay 43.6% of all Federal income tax in the United States. Of course, to pay that much in taxes you must earn more than $2 million per year. Just about 115,000 households who earn more than $9 million per year pay 20% of the annual tax burden. The bottom 50% of American taxpayers pay a total of 3% of the total income tax. So, maybe you should breathe a sigh of relief.

Did Jesus Teach that we should Pay Taxes?

Even in Bible times, people hated to pay taxes. The Pharisees tried to trap Jesus in His words when they asked, “Is it lawful to give a poll-tax to Caesar, or not?” (Matthew 22:17).  They wanted to know if paying a tax to Caesar was in accordance with the Jewish Law, the Torah. The “poll-tax” was a tax imposed by the Roman government on every Jew.

If Jesus said they should pay, His enemies could charge Him with disloyalty to Israel. If He said no, they could denounce Him to the Romans as a rebel. Jesus recognized their trap and said, “Show Me the coin used for the poll-tax.” After bringing a Roman coin, Jesus asked, “Whose likeness and inscription is this? They said to Him, Caesar’s. Then He said to them, Then render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s; and to God the things that are God’s” (verses 19-21).

What did Jesus mean by His statement? He recognized the difference between political and spiritual responsibilities. Caesar for them, government for us, should be given taxes and rightful political obedience. However, God also should be given worship, obedience, service, tithes, and the dedication of one’s whole life.

Remember: The Roman government, which Jesus said to obey, was not a righteous government. It was the government that sanctioned the crucifixion of the only perfect man this world has seen. However, Jesus paid taxes and commanded His followers to do likewise, because government is God’s present system of establishing order and equity for humanity.

Does God expect us to pay taxes?

Though surprising to some, the Bible commands Christians to pay taxes. Paul wrote, “Every person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those which exist are established by God” (Romans 13:1). He goes on to remind his readers that a ruler is “a minister of God to you for good,” because he, as an avenger, “brings wrath on the one who practices evil” (verse 4). Among other things, we should all be thankful for prisons and police.

Paul wrote further: “For because of this you also pay taxes, for rulers are servants of God, devoting themselves to this very thing. Render to all what is due them: tax to whom tax is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honor to whom honor” (Romans 13:6-7).

On top of God’s clear directives, the only time Christians have the right to disobey government is when it forbids them from doing something the Bible commands, like teaching in Jesus’ name (Acts 5:27-29).

In a letter dated May 10, 1789, President George Washington wrote the United Baptist Churches of Virginia: “that every man, conducting himself as a good citizen, and being accountable to God alone for his religious opinions, ought to be protected in worshipping the Deity according to the dictates of his own conscience.”

According to Bible teaching, God planned for taxes to be used for the benefit of society. And even though we dread the day they are due, we should be thankful for all the benefits of a government that provides protection, care and freedom to serve God according to the dictates of our conscience.

 

I Love Sticky Fingerprints

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“Would you rather have clean walls, or reach children? You can’t have both.” That loaded question resulted from a list of complaints presented to the pastor at the monthly deacon’s meeting. Some members had griped to the deacons about “dirty fingerprints all over the building,” following a youth meeting. Fortunately the pastor’s question enabled the group to put the problem into proper perspective. The church building is God’s house and should be respected and clean, but children make messes—it’s in their genes. If a church ministers to one, it must be willing to deal with the other. Little children and big messes just go together. With the complaint now in perspective, the deacons decided, without a vote, to put up with messiness and inconvenience, in order to reach and minister to families with young children. After all, the true purpose of the church is not to construct elegant buildings, but to reach sinful people, with the saving gospel of Christ.

What Would Jesus Do?

A similar event occurred in Christ’s ministry, recorded in Mark 10:13-16, “And they were bringing children to Him so that He might touch them; but the disciples rebuked them. But when Jesus saw this, He was indignant and said to them, Permit the children to come to Me; do not hinder them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I say to you whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all. And He took them in His arms and began blessing them, laying His hands on them.”

Without realizing it, the Lord’s disciples had adopted the wrong attitude of their culture regarding the value and worth of children. During the first century, children were considered to be the property of parents, who could treat them as they pleased. In those days most people looked at their children more like unpaid workers or cheap labor. In verse 13 the Lord’s disciples “rebuked,” or sharply criticized those who brought children to Jesus. In verse 14, the Lord’s reaction shocked His followers, as He was “indignant,” very displeased toward His disciples and their devaluation of the importance of children.

The disciples thought they would help Jesus by keeping children from bothering Him. But the Master let them know that reaching and blessing children was what He was all about! “Permit the children to come to me; do not hinder them” (verse 14), He said. In His ministry lifestyle and personal life, the Lord Jesus always had time for people, including little children—and so should we!

It is important for churches to reach and teach children because, “the kingdom of God belongs to such as these” (verse 14). For, “whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all” (verse 15). Humility and submission to God is essentially a foundational value in His kingdom. So, Jesus “took them in His arms” (verse 16), blessing and holding the children, as we should do.

A Frightening Trend

There seems to be an alarming absence of children and young families among many churches today. If you look around your church and see more than 50% are gray headed, your church is in trouble. In just a few years the gray heads will be gone. Then who will carry the load, support the church, teach the classes and preach the gospel?

The Pew Research Center on Religion and Public Life recently released some startling statistics. The percentage of adults attending religious services by age revealed: 18-29 Year Olds – 27%, 30-49 Year Olds – 33%, 50-64 Year Olds – 38% and 65+ Year Olds – 48%. The truth is simple: only about one-quarter of younger adults are bringing their children to church.

One lesson from Mark 10 is that the Lord would have us endure crying babies, mischievous children and dirty fingerprints because, “of such is the kingdom of God.” The aim of church is not so that every member can get what he or she wants, have everything their way, and passively sit in comfort—but to worship God, communicate His Word and proclaim His message.

Remember Thy Creator in the Days of Thy Youth

The Barna Research Group could endorse Solomon’s commands about remembering the Creator in ones’ youth. According to a survey of 992 born-again Christians, 77% came to faith in Christ before their 21st birthday, with almost half (43%) of those trusting Christ before they turned 13!

Summarizing their findings in, “Evangelism Is Most Effective Among Kids,” is this powerful statement: “The primary window of opportunity for effectively reaching people with the good news of Jesus’ death and resurrection is during the preteen years. It is during those years that people develop their frames of reference for the remainder of their life – especially theologically and morally. Consistently explaining and modeling truth principles for young people is the most critical factor in their spiritual development.” It is not that older people cannot be saved—it is to say that most unbelieving older people will not be saved.

Seek to Reach the Kids!

There are many tools, curricula, means and methods available to equip churches to reach young people today. But churches must employ them with a strong devotion to Jesus and the gospel, without fear of sticky fingerprints on the stained glass windows. Seek to lead your church to take children in their arms and bless them, just as Jesus did. Make your church’s top priority reaching young families and not maintaining clean walls! You can always clean the walls, but only Jesus can clean the hearts.

Words Matter

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Missouri statehouse lawmakers learned the hard way that words matter. “World Magazine” reported that the Missouri state legislature decided to ban Styrofoam coolers from their rivers. Inexpensive white foam coolers are easily broken, and when discarded, cause unsightly river litter. So they passed a law to ban polypropylene. What they meant to ban was polystyrene. Because the deliberative body almost used the right word, their law resulted in banning Tupperware and plastic containers instead of ice chests! So, for now, if you float a river in Missouri, you can bring cold cuts and cokes in your cheap ice cooler, but will be breaking the law if you bring a Tupperware container of lunch meat! Words matter. Mark Twain said the difference between the right word and the almost right word is like the difference between lightning and the lightning bug.

Words matter, and they contain and convey tremendous power, both for good and for harm. For each word on the 720 pages of Adolph Hitler’s “Mein Kampf,” 1,880 people died during World War II. Words matter.

To some people, words matter only if they get them what they want. Dishonest politicians use words to make extensive promises to woo voters, but often conveniently forget them after the election. Slick salesmen may use words to get you to buy something you don’t want that leaves you with buyers remorse. However, Jesus said, “But I tell you that every careless word that people speak, they shall give an accounting for it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned” (Matt. 12:36, 37). Imagine—people will be justified or condemned—based on their words!

Solomon wrote, “There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword, But the tongue of the wise brings healing” (Prov. 12:18). Some words cut and slice, leaving carnage in their wake. Harmful words cut deeply; sometimes they are remembered for a lifetime, altering the thinking and direction of those who heard them. Other words, spoken with grace, compassion and love, can bring healing to a hurting soul. Mere words may fortify others with boldness and courage. Sometimes simple, caring words bring comfort that encourages the downcast surveying his losses. The saving gospel of Christ can be communicated in words. Not only do words matter—they have great potential.

Wise and godly speech have several things in common:

First, wise speech requires care and wisdom. We should be selective and careful in our speech. Proverbs 17:27 and 28 say, “He who restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has an excellent spirit is a man of understanding. Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is considered wise; When he closes his lips, he is considered prudent.” The psalmist David wrote “Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; Keep watch over the door of my lips” (Psalm 141:3). Proverbs 13:3 teaches, “The one who guards his mouth preserves his life; the one who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.” Words should be guarded so they will build up and not tear down people around us. Take time to think before you speak, so your words will not harm. “The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things” (Prov. 15:28).

Second, wise speech should be truthful, not false or exaggerated. “A trustworthy witness will not lie, but a false witness utters lies” (Prov. 14:5). Always tell the truth. You don’t always have to tell all you know, but what you do say should be truthful. When words matter to us, they can become a blessing to others. Kind words are a creative force that builds up what is good and showers blessings on hearers.

Third, a wise person realizes the power of words. James compared the power of the tongue to the rudder of a great ship. He wrote, “Look at the ships also, though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, are still directed by a very small rudder wherever the inclination of the pilot desires. So also the tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things. See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire!” (James 3:4-5). Amazingly—hasty, critical or hurtful words spoken scores of years before, can be recalled and still render pain to the recipient.  Harsh words may be forgiven, but they are not often forgotten.

Fourth, wise speech should be considerate of others. “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise makes knowledge acceptable, but the mouth of fools spouts folly” (Prov. 15:1, 2). When in another’s company, everything you say can soothe hurts or stir up anger. A wise person considers the consequences of his words before they come out of his mouth.

Finally, wise speech is timely. Words spoken at the right time are priceless. “How delightful is a timely word!” (Prov. 14:23). The writer of Proverbs paints a beautiful picture of the positive effect of spoken words: “Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word spoken in right circumstances. Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear. Like the cold of snow in the the of harvest is a faithful messenger to those who send him, for he refreshes the soul of his masters” (Prov. 25:11-13).

Let’s determine to speak carefully, truthfully and wisely, so Christ will be glorified and His kingdom extended! Good words are extremely valuable, but cost little. Words matter. Choose yours wisely!